To publish or not to publish your memoir

It is very difficult for a new writer to get noticed these days by agents and the big traditional publishers. Agent Rachelle Gardner receives hundreds of queries a week from hopeful writers jockeying for her attention. Gardner recently wrote a blog post specifying the type of books she is interested in representing (each agent has specialties). She is interested in books with a Christian slant and in memoirs, but not “personal stories of overcoming adversity… unless your story has built-in marketing potential and an obvious media hook.” Someone then asked if that meant her Christian-perspective story of overcoming cancer twice was not of interest. Gardner was kind enough to explain further.

Publishing is a business. A big business. And it is not doing so well these days. The traditional publishers are looking for sure bets: celebrity stories, big name authors, hot-selling current themes (think vampires). If you are not famous, you have an uphill battle. Your manuscript had better be written really well, have a subject attractive to the masses and yet have a twist that sets it apart. “Misery” memoirs of drugs and abuse are a dime a dozen. The cancer survivor is one of millions, as Gardner noted. She says, “Memoir is a demanding genre; it will only sell if the writing is stellar, and the story is crafted in a way that is very compelling. It usually needs a unique hook or a fresh spin on a common topic.” This is true of any genre: what makes your story stand out from the rest, but not be too different.

The average person will not have a standout memoir that can be sold to a publishing house. Those who truly believe they have a sellable story will need to develop serious writing skills, to research by reading top-selling memoirs, and to study similar memoir stories to see how to tweak to be unique. Consider approaching small publishers that accept memoirs. If you can do presentations related to your memoir theme, consider self-publishing and doing back-of-the-room sales. Again, publishing is a business. For some, it is an expensive hobby.

For most, it is not important to sell their memoir to millions. For most, it is too much trouble to self-publish and market. That does not make their story less important or valuable. A memoir is what you leave behind for those you love, for those who want to remember you forever and tell their children and great-grandchildren about you. Your memoir may not make a million, but it will be worth a million to your family.You don’t need the publishing world to verify that.

Read Rachelle Gardner’s post, Writing Memoir

John Kremer’s Self-Publishing Hall of Fame
On Writing Well, 30th Anniversary Edition: The Classic Guide to Writing Nonfiction

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Journeying through spiritual beliefs in memoir

http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=cherrybloss03-20&o=1&p=8&l=bpl&asins=0306818043&fc1=000000&IS2=1&lt1=_blank&m=amazon&lc1=0000FF&bc1=000000&bg1=FFFFFF&f=ifrBrenda Peterson spent her childhood in the wilderness, growing to love nature with her park ranger father but influenced by her family’s strong Southern Baptist belief that the world was just a temporal realm until they were taken away in The Rapture. After struggling with what she calls the paradox of just that place of waiting versus the divine wonder of the earth, the forest won her spiritual heart. “If we looked at the earth as more divine, we would take care of it,” Peterson said, explaining her combined belief in spirituality and environmentalism. To her, waiting to “go home” and her family’s excitement about signs of trouble on earth did not make sense.

Peterson’s book I Want to Be Left Behind: Finding Rapture Here on Earth is an example of memoir as spiritual journey. Peterson uses humor, respectful dialogue and her work with wildlife to keep reader interest as she struggles with conflicting views and family pressure to find her way through fog and into light. She leaves a trail that can inspire others to study and think their way through their own spiritual struggles, or to remember their past struggle and to write it down for their own children. Even those who have not particularly struggled with God and religion can include the why’s and where-for’s of their beliefs in their life writing. Our spirituality is part of who we are – and even hardened atheists have their story.

Here is an excerpt from I Want to Be Left Behind: Finding Rapture Here on Earth

Disclaimer: A number of my relatives are devout Southern Baptist, but none are “Rapturists.” Those preparing for The Rapture are a small minority of very conservative evangelist Christian believers.

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Remembering stories? Just write!

At church today, Pastor Sue told one of her wonderful stories about her grandparents’ farm in West Virginia. Sue is a great storyteller, so I could just see the big, plodding white horse, “Old Dick,” standing patiently while being harnessed to the hand-held plow, then working as a team with Sue’s grandfather who shouted “gee” and “haw” while steering his old friend through the fields. No reins were needed, the horse knew what was expected through years of work. The grandparents may have been poor subsistence farmers growing the “tobaccy” cash crop while keeping an acre or so planted for vegetables that would be put up to keep them through the winter, but they were rich in stories of the culture of that time and place. Obviously they made an impression on their granddaughter, and are now making an impression on the members of our church.

Still basking in the beauty of that story of old-time plowing, reminding us to hitch ourselves to Jesus and plow love, I asked Pastor Sue after the service when her memoir was going to be finished. And, like most people, she hadn’t really thought about actually writing down those stories about her grandparents. She even has quite a story about herself.

Start writing NOW! Most of us can use a computer to type, but even hand-writing the stories into a notebook or journal is more than fine. My stepmom has been typing her memories as they come to her, sending them out as emails to her family. Hopefully she will collect them into a book of essays, adding scanned photos and maybe a list of important family dates. How simple is this? No excuses, anyone can do it. So get going. Just write!

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