Back from Tennessee, with good memories and pulled pork barbecue

I won’t have to eat again for a week. We are back from a post-Christmas visit to family, my husband’s side in West Tennessee. My mom-in-law is the queen of home cooked Southern meals. When not eating cornbread dressing, super-candied sweet potatoes, corn pudding casserole, and incredibly moist coconut cake, I worked to finish up a mini lifestory book of her memories growing up in the country and of recipes of her most famous dishes. I’ll have to print the book in color, to capture the full glory of the photos of food and the beauty of the family’s land, old barns and closeups of purple-hull pea plants included. I will let you know how that goes—the full-color books may be expensive, but the contents will be priceless.

MeadowlarkHard to say what I like best about visiting the Tennessee countryside. Uncle Harold called it “God’s Country,” and it is. Not of the remote God of majestic vistas or stunning landforms or sharp peaks piercing the sky, but of a reachable God of forested rolling hills and swampy bottomlands, of the morning songs of yellow-breasted meadowlarks. There’s the landscape that speaks of nostalgia, there’s the comfort food born from hard-working farm life, there’s the warmth of family ties. Then there is the barbecue.

Tennessee barbecue is unlike any other. I’m not talking about Memphis barbecue (I’ve been to the famed Rendevous restaurant), but Tennessee hill country barbecue, hickory-smoked at small, often roadside joints that are like little diners, if there is seating at all. Earl Russell, who grew up on a Tennessee farm, wrote about it in a recent blog post, “Soul Food—Tennessee Pulled Pork,” which made me hungry and wistful. My family only visits our Tennessee side once or twice a year, and a long time has passed since we last ate barbecue there. Despite all the glorious home-cooked leftovers in the fridge, my sister-in-law took me to the Pig House of Jackson, Tennessee, to indulge my memories.

Pig House BarbecueWas this moist, shredded pork better than any other I’ve tasted, or was I just basking in nostalgia? Comparing it to St. Louis barbecue, the country barbecue had a milder smoked flavor, not the almost too-rich flavor I find here. The sauce is not the sweet, ketchup-looking stuff we have here and everywhere else I’ve been either. Tennessee country barbecue has a thin, vinegary red sauce flecked with dots of red pepper. It has a bite to it. The taste of the pork is more delicate, and the sauce enhances, not overwhelms. I’ll have to compare notes with Earl, for whom this barbecue is a long-distance treat now, too, but the pork was good and we brought some home with us along with a tub of that sauce. (The Pig House chicken was excellent, too, and I see the business will ship.) Paul Latham’s Meat Co. is also known for its barbecue.

Tennessee Pulled Pork

I would definitely recommend stopping by one of the little barbecue places if you’re traveling through the Tennessee countryside. I know northern Alabama has them, too—I highly recommend the Old Greenbriar Restaurant if you’re ever in the area of Huntsville/Madison. Greenbriar has an outstanding white sauce for its barbecue chicken that I have never seen elsewhere, not even in Tennessee. Hmm, I wonder if they do mail order.

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Supenbrai and those stories you heard over Thanksgiving

Hope you all had a wonderful holiday with family and friends and stories. I asked my dad what sort of Dutch things his parents (my grandparents) did. He said, “They just went to a Dutch church and ate supenbrij.” I knew the Dutch church had one of its services in the Dutch language and that my grandmother often went to church service twice daily. I remembered I had found a recipe for supenbrai (“soop em bry”) online and told Dad I had thought about trying it out. “Don’t bother,” he scoffed, “It’s awful.” Being the curious type, I still might someday make this lumpy, congealed barley goo that seems related to oatmeal. Eating the food your grandparents ate is experiencing their heritage in a visceral way, right? I might be sorry.

My step-family came up with some funny stories. A cousin’s family decided to buy a real tree Friday night, a change from their usual artificial one. Stopping on the way home, they checked to make sure the tree was still up on the car top—it wasn’t! It was waiting for them in the dark several miles back on the side of the highway, in perfectly good shape. I told them about the time our real tree fell over onto our hardwood floor for no apparent reason, right in front of our eyes, shattered pieces of glass balls and broken ornament parts everywhere. The horrified look on our faces must have been priceless. A lesson in no use crying over spilled tree.

That night we heard about our step-niece’s family attending a 70th birthday party for a grandpa. Her little boy, the cutest two-year-old ever, suddenly did a projectile vomit – right onto the birthday grandpa. Because everyone needs a little barf on their birthday! What can you do but laugh. Reminds me of the time another young family member sneezed mightily onto the broccoli salad just as it started its passage along the table at a big family gathering. Germs, anyone?

So what do you do with your family stories? My friend Kim Wolterman and I will be at the Webster Groves Book Shop in St. Louis this Saturday, December 7, 2:00-4:00 p.m. to talk about that. December 7 is Pearl Harbor Day. Kim and I both have written and published lifestory books about our parents and WWII. Kim is author of From Buckeye to GI, about her father’s service in the China-India-Burma theatre, because not so much is heard about that. She also helps others discover the lifestories (histories) of their old houses with her Guess Who’s Been Sleeping in My Bed(room) book for St. Louis detectives and her e-book, Keys to Unlocking House History for anyone in the United States. I am interesting in seeing her new Shutterfly book about her recent family history hunting trip overseas. Of course, I have Cherry Blossoms in Twilight, my mother’s story of surviving the Depression and WWII in Japan—because not so much is heard about that either. I will also bring along a few shorter and family-only lifestory projects I did for others. I’ll be creating a handout about ways to capture stories and will post it on this website under the Resources tab.

Hear any good stories over the holiday?

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National Lifewriting Month – ask a veteran

A few weeks ago I attended a showing of an 85-year-old WWII veteran’s home movies of sorts. Actually, he had put together a film documenting his war experiences. His photos, along with a helpful map or two, were strung together and he then narrated his story and turned it into a movie. He flew transport planes and fortunately didn’t see combat, but he still had plenty of stories. Like being frightened by what turned out to be little wallabys making a huge noise stomping through grasses at night, and coffee tasting like the iodine tablets put into rainwater collected in lister bags and used for drinking. Of being taken for a ride by a buddy who told him to take over the plane’s controls while he leaned out the window with an Al Capone-type submachine gun to strafe a nearby Japanese base, just for fun.  The former military men in the audience were disappointed not to see his 25 photos of plane artwork, but he said they were not fit for women and children to see . . . something about “oversexed guys.”

Perhaps this veteran’s big claim to fame was that he was sent to Seoul to fetch the Japanese government officials there back to Tokyo—they came peacefully because they were afraid the Koreans would kill them.  Meanwhile his buddy flew the first Americans to Hiroshima to study the damage. While the veteran said he always felt safe, others in the audience piped up to remind us he had to fly without proper maps and even in bad weather. The veteran was in the first group of American planes to fly into Tokyo after the war, but was the only one to make it as he noted a landmark and altered course while the others depended on their improper maps and crashed.

I don’t know what kind of program the veteran used to make his film. He divided his story into three parts and showed us Part II. Part I was about his training and Part III was the notorious nose art—I think he sent a copy to a museum somewhere. A few years ago, I made a set of family-story movies using the free Windows Movie Maker; Macs have their own version. The movie I made is the flipside of this veteran’s story, that of a Japanese-American internment experience followed by what it was like to live in bombed-out Hiroshima right after the war. I edited a lengthy videotaped interview, broke it into sections, and incorporated photos and added a little bit of music during the titles and the ending credits. Windows Movie Maker is a pretty amazing program for being free. See my old blogpost Windows Movie Maker Makes You Look Professional. I should write an updated version.

Veterans Day is tomorrow, and November is National Life Writing Month. Maybe it’s time to capture your favorite veteran’s stories. Be sensitive to post-traumatic stress, though. Me, I’m putting together a Korean War memoir for a new friend. In July I submitted what I had done with Chapter 2 so far to the Proud to Be:  Writing by American Warriors, Vol 2, anthology and it was accepted! My friend is excited and will read an excerpt this Friday at one of the book release events. If you’re in St. Louis, stop in and listen to some powerful stories – see the Warrior Arts Alliance Facebook page for info. There will be a Volume 3 next fall, so if you know a veteran, warm up your typing fingers or let him or her know to get writing! See Lifewriting Questions for Veterans under the Resources tab above to get started.

Proud to Be: Writing by American Warriors

Salute to all veterans! Thank you for your service.

Proud to be

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