Tell me a story! Got any family stories?

That’s the BlogHer Find Your Roots prompt for today. Family stories! Hmm. My Dad doesn’t have any actual stories, mostly details and explanations of growing up on a little farm around Chicago chasing loose cows and breathing in the dust from baling hay. My mom was the storyteller in the family. Her stories are all in her memoir, Cherry Blossoms in Twilight. I don’t remember all that much from when I was little, so I can’t believe how good her memory was.

One of my favorite stories of Mom’s was how she and a friend, as teen girls tired of pigtails and wearing drab colored clothing to camouflage themselves from warplanes, decided to ride their bikes out to the hairdresser to get permanents. Mom’s mother warned them it was dangerous, but off they went pedaling down the path between tea fields, carrying charcoal to make the fire to heat the curlers. They heard the whine of a warplane behind them in the distance and pedaled faster. But the whine got louder and louder until the plane was so close they threw their bikes down on the dirt road and jumped into the tea bushes. Rat-a-tat-tat, the plane dove in and shot up their bikes, leaving the girls to walk their bikes the rest of the way to the hairdresser and all the way back. When they finally returned, my grandmother shook her head, saying, “You girls are foolish! Your lives are more important than curly hair.”

Girls will be girls, I guess, war or no war.

My mom (left) kept her hair curly almost all the rest of her life

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Where does your name come from?

Today’s BlogHer Find Your Roots prompt asks where my name came from. Am I named after someone in the family? Nope. Even though I am Japanese-Dutch, my first name is Spanish. My mom saw a movie and liked the main character’s name. Then my parents forgot everything about the movie, even the title. My namesake character must have been boring! My middle name is Japanese, though, but I think my mom just liked the sound of it, no significance. Linda Emiko means beautiful blessed one in the two different languages. And how fitting of me to have names in two languages because I am good at mixing different languages. Usually I mix Spanish and French, but since I learned a little Japanese a few summers ago, I can mix all three languages now. I know just enough to sound ridiculous.

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Genealogy versus lifewriting

BlogHer’s Find Your Roots prompt for today asks whether I am interested in genealogy and whether I’ve made a family tree. You know from my last post that I can’t make much of a family tree since most of it is overseas and unknown. I do like genealogy and would make a family tree if I could, but I’m most interested in the stories, not just names of strangers. I would create a book with the lineage, what stories I could get, photos, copies of documentation, and additional information to place the people into their historical and cultural setting.

I have an impressive and unusual historical and genealogical book that captures not one family but a whole rural community in Tennessee. The 8.5”x11” book was printed at a copyshop and I don’t know how the two staples can hold the 160 pages together—the thing is bulging. The community was tightknit and interconnected as children married into local families and settled nearby, so this book was popular and a valuable resource. I know a lot of the names, at least, since the book includes half my husband’s side of the family and their friends. Country singer and actor Eddie Arnold was born and raised in this community. Below is a list of types of information included.

Intro to the community
History, descriptions of churches
History and stories of the community center and fire department
History and stories of the schools
Names of the teachers and rosters of students (these were very small schools)
Short news clippings (retyped) of community happenings
History of the cemetery and list of everyone buried there up to publish date
History and genealogy of each family (back to 1800s if known)
An index of families and the pages they appear on
Photos, including class photos, group baptisms in the pond, family photos

These insular communities don’t exist anymore what with everyone moving around so much these days, but a lot of the general information included in the book would be interesting in any one family’s history book.

Friendship History

Friendship Snippet

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