Old Letters from WWII

During our holiday visit with my in-laws, after we had enjoyed mulling over old family photos, my mother-in-law brought out several piles of worn, yellowed envelopes tied together with string—letters written by her father to her mother after he was sent off for duty in WWII. The letters were addressed “To my wife and babies,” as the oldest child was only about five at the time. He worried about his wife left to care for the three children and the farm by herself, and so wrote every two or three days.

I only had time to read a handful of letters, but I know they are all treasures to savor. Not just for the old war-era stamps, the musty antique postcards, the “censored by U.S. Military” markings, but because they hold bits of personal history and the heartfelt handwriting of someone dear. I will be spending my next visits reading through these letters, discovering the man my husband’s grandfather was, and discovering what training and war duty was like from a very personal perspective.

Fortunately PawPaw survived his tour of duty working on a supply ship in the Mediterranean, but he refused to speak of his experiences during the War. Whatever he saw was something he chose to try to blot out of his life. I knew him as a slow-moving, gentle old man in farmers’ overalls, a good-natured man of the earth whose eyes twinkled while he told used jokes I couldn’t help but laugh at. I will be pleased to get to know him better, even though he is no longer with us.

“Make the moments matter, for the memories you give will be with them forever.”

– From 2007 holiday artwork by D. Morgan, used by Veterans of Foreign Wars.
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Family Portraits and Old Photos

After plenty of good cooking and eating, visiting and present unwrapping, we should all hopefully have made some great holiday memories. My in-laws celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary the day after Christmas and so our family gathered in a beautifully decorated old Victorian house in Jackson, Tennessee, to have a complete family portrait done by the artistic Roger Markin of The Family Album, a private studio I highly recommend to anyone in the area. While we were there the individual families took the opportunity to have their portraits done also. In this high-tech age, we were able to see the photos immediately afterwards on a large screen and as a group chose the best of the lots. We were all quite pleased with the results, a feat considering there were eleven in the big family photo and we had to threaten a few unwilling children.

The next evening, my mother-in-law brought out boxes of old photos so I could search for ones to show at the anniversary party to be held in a few weeks. Oh, how fun to see all the old school pictures, delight at the lively-looking young girl my mother-in-law used to be and how handsome my father-in-law was as a boy. I saw relatives I’d never met but had heard of, and we laughed at how relatives we knew had changed over the years. My little daughter was amazed that her daddy had red-hair as a boy, we remarked how my teen looked a lot like her aunt, and we pointed out how every woman had a perm in the 1980’s.

In this coming new year as families gather for birthdays, reunions and other special days, think of opportunities to make those family portraits, to take pictures, to document moments. I had never thought of having a large group photo done and am very glad to have participated in that. Looking at those antique photos at my in-laws’ dining table made me appreciate all the more the importance of photography to capture the thousand words, so to speak, it would take to describe a person in a moment in an era. The joy of looking back at family photos is priceless.

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Making Gingerbread Memories

This last week has been filled with cookie dough. Every year I give away collections of homemade goodies to school staff, the church office, work places, my elderly friend in the nursing home as well as relatives. These days, people are thrilled to receive homemade goodies; it seems few have the time or energy to bake anymore, plus those delectables are bad for the diet.

My teenager can barely stand to boil water for her Kraft macaroni and cheese, but her little sister enjoys helping me cook and bake. It is a wonderful bonding experience as well as a way to teach math and show the practical benefits of knowing how to read and follow directions. Making Auntie K’s well-loved gingerbread cookies is a particularly good experience.

For this gingerbread recipe, developed by a chemistry teacher, a baking soda and water solution is added to a batter that has vinegar mixed into it. This combination causes the batter to bubble up as the soda-water is added, so the recipe is fun to make as well as delicious. My daughter enjoys the measuring of ingredients and I ask her questions like, “What does the baking soda do?” and “If we wanted to cut the recipe in half, how much molasses would we use?” or this year, “What percentage of one cup is one-third cup?” Oh, her teacher would be proud of me!

I would encourage all parents to allow their kids a chance to bake homemade cookies for the holidays (from scratch, not the slice-and-bake kind) because making the “old-fashioned” kind of cookies provides a fun and delicious learning experience as well as a way to make lasting memories. So start a holiday tradition of baking together, if you haven’t already. Don’t let the mess get in the way of the fun, and allow your child to be creative if your cookies need decorating.* May your baking memories be of warm delicious smells and warm loving hearts!

*see the December 10, 2005, post for the Eggnog Cookie recipe for some real decorating fun (see photo in December 22, 2006 post)

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