Those Email Questionaires

Recently, my sister passed on to me one of those simple email questionnaires designed to let others know more about you. Our family has done a few of these in the last several years, and I thought to tweak this new one to make it more meaningful…this based on a Jan 5 post I read on the Heart and Craft of Lifestory Writing blog about questions a young girl was to ask an older relative about their life as part of a class project – they were tough philosophical questions! So, if you are up for it, try sending this one out to your extended family or to your group of close friends. I suggest you send them all your answers and ask them to type in their own and reply-to-all. Have fun!

1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?

2. WHICH PARENT ARE YOU MOST LIKE?

3. NAME A FAVORITE SONG?

4. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED AND WHY?

5. ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE ALIKE OR DIFFERENT FROM YOU?

6. ARE YOU A LEADER OR A FOLLOWER?

7. DO YOU BELIEVE IN GHOSTS/SPIRITS?

8. BEACH OR WOODS?

9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?

10. GLASS HALF FULL OR HALF EMPTY?

11. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY STRONG?

12. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?

13. WHAT DO YOU LIKE LEAST ABOUT YOURSELF?

14. WHAT IS YOUR BEST PHYSICAL FEATURE?

15. FAVORITE DECADE IN YOUR LIFE?

16. FAVORITE SMELLS?

17. HOLD IT IN OR LET IT OUT?

18. REALISTIC MOVIES OR FANTASY?

19. NAME A FAVORITE MOVIE?

20. FAVORITE COLOR TO WEAR?

21. MOST MEANINGFUL THING YOU EVER DID?

22. HUGS OR KISSES?

23. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING NOW?

24. FAVORITE SOUNDS?

25. YOUR MOST INTERESTING TALENT OR ACCOMPLISHMENT?

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Grannie Annie Family Stories

I recently read Volume 2 of The Grannie Annie – A Family Story Celebration, put together by Connie McIntyre and Fran Hamilton, and was so touched by the many beautiful stories written by children about members of their families. The last couple years, these ladies have held a contest for any child in grades 4-8 or any homeschooled child ages 9-14 to submit a story about one of their family members. They collect their favorites (and the illustrations) to go into the next volume of The Grannie Annie family story book. I was so impressed with the kids’ writings, which Fran told me are not edited by her or Connie.

There is quite a gamut of story types, from the girl whose family was denied boarding the Titanic due to her brother’s pinkeye to a seven-year-old Vietnamese girl responsible for cooking, cleaning and babysitting while her parents worked long hours during the day and into the night. There is a more modern-day story of a teen trying to keep her family together and having to drop out of school to care for her mother and siblings only to have a miracle happen to change their lives around. You can tell these stories are written by kids, but they are sweet, funny, exciting, and most definitely educational. The best part is that so many of the child writers commented at the end of their stories how close they felt to their parent or grandparent, or, in one case, how grateful they were that their “tenth-great-grandfather” survived his fall out of the Mayflower. This book belongs in every school classroom as a source of sample writing of personal narratives and for students to learn of the fascinating lives that parents, grandparents and other elders have had.

The deadline for the next Grannie Annie contest is February 14, 2008. See The Grannie Annie website for more details on how to enter and to read some of the stories from Volume 2. Even if your classroom or your child doesn’t enter the contest, it is worthwhile to read these stories together and discover the value of our elders as storytellers and keepers of history.

The real-life Grannie Annie, Ann Guirreri Cutler, comments about her own life, “By sharing their stories, Gramma and Mom created a sense of family, a sense of closeness and security, that will stay with me forever.”

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Taking Down the Christmas Tree Blues

I took down the Christmas tree yesterday. It is a nostalgic event for me. I like to do it at night, with the tree lit for the last time. I admire each ornament as I put it back into its little box or in its wrappings and I think of where we got it, or who bought it for us, and when. I feel closer to my relatives, who are a little too far away for my liking, and to our pasts together and the love that binds us.

My husband threw the naked tree near the end of the driveway to await Monday’s trash pickup. Not long ago it had been a beautiful living thing thirsting for water, spilling its cedar scent, delighting us with soft branches hiding tiny glowing lights that gave shape and shimmer to precious ornaments nestled in dark enclaves. Now it joined other stripped trees dumped along the roadside, abandoned as they faded and turned brittle and became old and out-of-season. It gives me a sense of sadness to see these once glorious symbols of joy and excitement now discarded.

The magic of the holidays has left us, but hopefully we have felt renewed and restored by the happiness and the meaning behind the celebrations. Christmas is about love. “And love is not a seasonal thing.”*

Have a blessed new year!


*from Pastor Sue Mitch

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