Write your philosophy

What’s your philosophy of life? The ruckus from the recent Chick-fil-a debate sure put life and religious philosophy in the limelight, and it wasn’t a pretty sight. There were many instances of emotions taking over reasoning, with not a lot of tolerance shown for dissenting opinions. In this age of polarization, at least here in the U.S., especially with presidential elections coming up, the atmosphere is nasty and even a little frightening to some.

Some people may think lifewriting is only for famous people or those who have led important or exciting lives, but it is not. It is to leave who you are and what you learned to future generations. It is not just remembering what happened in the past and writing it down, it is writing down who you are and what the past meant to you. You could just stick with facts and historic events, but your family will want to remember more than that—they want to remember you.

Who are you? What are the events that shaped your life? How did they affect you? These events are not just facts but opportunities for philosophical reasoning. Life philosophy, religious philosophy, even political philosophy. If you are religious, why are you and have you ever questioned it? How have your beliefs changed over time? Where did you get your life philosophy from and can you give examples of how you live it? How have our wars or the illegal immigrant situation affected your philosophies. If you dare get into political philosophy, you may need to edit with a butcher knife to avoid creating a gigantic tome.

Unless your writings are intended to be major essays about your belief systems, it is probably best to stick with inserting bits and pieces of your thoughts and philosophies as pertinent throughout the writing of your stories, although including an essay or two among a series of vignettes (mini stories) is fine. Lifewritings I recently edited included what I’d almost call letters to children about what shaped their mother and life advice she wanted to pass on from her experiences.

In my own mother’s Japanese memoir, Cherry Blossoms in Twilight, some readers commented on wanting to know more about what my mother thought and felt, especially since the memories are about poverty and war. Unfortunately, when you’re in your seventies and long and far removed from those old days, you don’t always remember way back when. Also, the Japanese are known for their stoicism, their gaman, which means to accept it and do your best. But the philosophies that did get into the book are perhaps all the more powerful because they are rare. “Don’t hate the enemy, they are only doing their job.”

Peace, love and understanding





About moonbridgebooks

Co-author of Cherry Blossoms in Twilight, a WWII Japan memoir of her mother's childhood; author of Poems That Come to Mind, for caregivers of dementia patients; Co-author/Editor of Battlefield Doc, a medic's memoir of combat duty during the Korean War; life writing enthusiast; loves history and culture (especially Japan), poetry, and cats
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4 Responses to Write your philosophy

  1. Jan Morrill says:

    You give us a good reminder, Linda. I’m afraid in this age of technology, many of us will not take the time to write our stories. And many of us who do, may be fearful of being honest. If that is true, so much will be lost.

  2. I have thought of that fear of being honest. In some ways we (Americans) feel so free to talk about whatever we do no matter how personal, yet to have an opinion can be dangerous, especially in times of social or political changes. Oh, my, this makes me think of another important memoir topic related to this. Next Sunday.

  3. It’s a difficult road to walk or write in this case our memories when some don’t reflect well on others, honesty seems as always the best policy. I’m afraid that many of us write ‘vanilla’ information even regarding our families (perhaps especially) not wanting to hurt anyone. Politically it’s a firestorm these days with the upcoming election, religious views, poverty, wealth, protecting wealth and protecting those who are far from wealthy, the working poor. If one takes a stand, as I view reading entries even on social media (facebook) people become very angry defending what they think is correct. If you write it expect a response!! All gathering information (or not gathering but simply listening to one view point). I will continue to record my memories and of those I have loved and try to write facts, sometimes carefully 🙂

  4. Yes, Trudy, it certainly is very dangerous out there and posting an opinion on social media is like begging for an arguement that could turn really ugly. In memoir and lifewriting, though, you have more words than a tweet or Facebook post to explain and soften, and your audience may be limited only to family and friends – who should love you anyway! More on this next week because I have family examples. Yikes!

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