Multicultural Books, Part I

“It is not the job of the news media to report on the typical, to give insight into a different culture. It is up to the storytellers and jesters, the memoir writers, the ordinary mothers and daughters” and fathers and sons (my addition). So writes Annie J. Kelly in her review of Firoozeh Duma’s memoir Laughing Without an Accent about the everyday adventures of living in two cultures.

Duma, in a series of comedic vignettes, engages her American audience in a fun learning lesson of what it means to be Iranian – or rather, of what it means to have Iranian customs and ways of thinking in the very different culture of America. Instead of hearing all the bad news about Iran, we are treated to the good news of how the Iranian people have commonalities with us. Despite any physical or cultural differences, it is amazing how our family lives can be so similar!

My favorite reads are multicultural. How fascinating to open one’s mind to the realities of people who are not just like me. How easy to read the newspapers and write off another country and its people as fanatic, backward, violent, brainwashed, etc. Books like Duma’s engage us with the truth that people everywhere are more alike than different, and to use comedy to bring that message across makes for a warm good feeling.

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Memoir Writing Groups and Classes

The popularity of genealogy mixed with a little history and a lot of personal experience seems to have resulted in the hot topic of memoir writing. Look at the best-seller lists of books these days and you’re sure to see a memoir or two amongst them. People like to read about other people’s lives – to learn, to compare, to be inspired, to heal, to satisfy our inherent nosiness… I mean curiosity. It’s easy for famous people to find readers for their life stories, but for us “everyday” people our readers will usually be our families and also our own selves because in writing our stories we reflect on our life and its meaning, lessons learned (or not!); we feel again the joys as well as sorrows and have the capacity to see with hindsight how our experiences shaped us. Writing our stories can be great therapy! Do you have a memoir inside you? I know you do!

Memoir writing workshops now abound. Libraries might have writing groups like this one in Harker Heights, TX, or host seminars (see Carol LaChappelle if you’re in the midwest), and online writing groups exist (see StoryCircle Network). Of course, many lifestory writing books await you. Take your pick, there are many ways to get inspired and get started.

For those interested in casual writing, it’s easy! Take a class, get tips online, don’t worry just spill it out! If writing for your family, do have a friend edit for understanding – you want your stories to make complete sense to the great-great-grandchildren you’ll probably never know. For those interested in creating a great read possibly leading to publication, you’ve got some real learning to do – you’ll need to work backwards in a sense, determining how best to interest your audience (whether family or buying public) and then writing what will please your reader instead of just yourself. Either way, stick your toes in the water and wade in!

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Dora the Explorer and Storytelling

Even Dora the Explorer’s family tells stories at the dinner table. “Do you like to eat dinner with your family?” “Do you like to hear stories?” Dora proceeds into an episode of how she met Boots, her monkey friend, on her very first exploring trip where Boots helps her outfox Swiper. She then asks Boots to join her as a fellow explorer and they have their first adventure where they get “chased” by falling acorns and, of course, help someone out.

I found a great story arts website page with tips about gathering stories from family members. It’s actually for teachers, but then aren’t we all teachers (and learners) in our own way? It all begins with asking questions. Don’t stop at those basic life questions either – my mom has some great ghost stories she heard when she was a child!

Come on! Vamanos! Let’s go tell our stories, too!

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