Family Vacations

Despite the gas prices, wouldn’t it be nice to go even an hour away to get away from everyday life and have some family sharing time? I remember “the old days” when I was a kid and our family trapped itself in a non-air-conditioned car together (flying was unthinkable for most) and lived out of a little Starcraft pop-up camper, with my neat-nik mother constantly sweeping out the sand and dirt. Together-time can drive us crazy, but family vacation time is still a great way to get to know each other better — when all are away from the busyness of schedules and TV and videogames. Well, nowadays it is very difficult to totally get away from all that, but we can do our best.

My parents loved nature and so us children were encouraged to love nature also, which didn’t take much prompting. Our family could be found kneeling on a carpet of pine needles to examine a peculiar mushroom or searching through Field Guide to North American Birds for the name of that jay-type bird we spotted. Unfortunately, I grew up to be a wimpy hotel-loving mom, and perhaps that is why those memories are extra precious to me. I have done my noncamping best, however, to instill a love of nature in my kids, with mixed results.

Soon we will be cruising with extended family along the Inside Passage of Alaska as we have big anniversaries and a graduation to celebrate. We’ll be sharing excitement, history and nature and bonding generations through those shared experiences. Yes, we’re doing the family vacation in a much grander way than the old-time camping, but does it really matter how a family shares? My old memories of simple times shine so brightly through the haze of time.

Note: Consider keeping a journal during vacations, not just notes about what you did or saw but what you thought about. This might also help decipher the wheres and whens of photos as well as keep the events of days straight. I’ll be making a scrapbook of our Alaska trip.

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RiseUp!

There is a new weekly newspaper insert appearing in some of the major papers, especially in the Midwest. The website states “By celebrating both our differences and commonalities, RiseUp aims to help build stronger communities, cities, nations and a stronger world.” I love it. This week’s insert in my local paper carried quite a few interesting articles on various subjects, including one on DNA and race.

The June 27-July 3 publication also carries Toy Story, by Diane Nichols. Unfortunately it is not available online. The article grew out of a bumper sticker, “He Who Dies With The Most Toys Wins,” that Ms. Nichols saw on the expensive Cadillac Escalade ahead of her old Toyota. She began to reflect on the meaning of success and her own life’s journey – what meant the most to her.

No matter our status in life, she notes, we all face the same end. Our obituaries will not mention all our wonderful or impressive possessions, rather they will list our family ties, our churches, the causes we supported, our service to others and our country. The greatest legacy is that of love and caring, leaving the world a better place, leaving our families and others with good memories. Nichols wishes she could write a new bumper sticker for the Escalade driver:

“He Who Dies With The Most Toys Should Have Had A Yard Sale.”

Hope you’ll be collecting fun family memories as you celebrate July 4th!

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When I Die

This has been a sad month of celebrity deaths. Karen Alaniz of the blog Write Now noted in a June 14 post how the media announces that so-and-so died at age XX. I did a quick search and noted how media headlines blatantly shout announcements such as “Tim Russert – Dead at 58!” Karen commented how nice it would be if it were instead announced that someone LIVED to be age XX… “She LIVED to be 101!” That little twist of words changes a death into a celebration of life, and hopefully each of us is living a life to be celebrated. We don’t have to be celebrities or do something notable, but only to have enjoyed life and perhaps helped others along the way. She lived. That sounds like a person worth remembering. And that reminds me of a well-loved poem:

“To laugh often and much;
To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a
Redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived,
This is to have succeeded.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

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