Internment Camp Experience

Last weekend I had the privilege of hearing an 88-year-old Japanese-American woman tell of her experiences in internment camps during WWII. For this university program, we first watched the movie American Pastime, set in the Topaz War Relocation Center in Utah, and then Janice told us her story. Hesitant at first, she became a delightful speaker showing a sense of droll humor that had us laughing as we learned. She had never seen American Pastime before and was astonished at how “rich” the Japanese-Americans seemed to be there—the people in the camps she lived in had had their bank accounts frozen and so had little money and were clothed in rags. After two months at a terrible temporary makeshift army barracks thrown together in California, the people were shipped to Arkansas where life was a little bit nicer although they were still prisoners crowded together and watched over by machine-gun wielding guards.

Janice’s eye-witness stories were eye-opening. She did not seem to have any bitterness, even though her family lost all they had. She was considered to be Japanese in America, but an American in Japan when she moved there soon after the war for family reasons. Ironically, she was treated as an alien in both countries.

Many people have been through bad experiences. Through the passage of time, their memories become softer, the emotions hazier with distance until they can speak their stories more easily. Today we are finding more WWII survivors willing to share their memories. There is so much to learn, and may we learn from their history.

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Top News Story

Our little town is again grieving a tragedy in the national spotlight. How can a town considered to be an ideal place to raise a family be struck by so much ugliness in the last few years. Are we blind? We have housed a child kidnapper, cop killer and now a man who could not be reasoned with and so turned into a crazed murderer. Perhaps we love our community so much and feel so safe that it is easy for bad people to hide behind our open walls of naivete. No one suspects anything.

We still love our town. As our pastor said during a prayer service, “We cannot let one man dictate who we are.” Perhaps we will be more suspicious now, less trusting, but I hope not too much. We still believe in our town and carry great hopes for it to continue to be a place known for its family atmosphere. Our community has again banded together to comfort each other, grieving, but safe in the memory of what we have been and what we will continue to be.

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Lifewriting—What If The Kids Don’t Care?

Last week, I gave a presentation to a group of senior folks and thought to mention how important their stories are even though their families might not be interested in them. Perhaps their children will be seniors themselves before they are interested, perhaps it will be the grandchildren or great-grandchildren who appreciate the wonders of the stories. One woman told me her teen grand-daughter was so excited to find and read a book of her old memories, saying, “Grandma, I just read the best book ever! It’s the one you wrote!”

A January 21 post in The Heart and Craft of Lifestory Writing blog mentions an article from the Denver Post of that same date called , “Ordinary Families Make History, Too.” A couple of Colorado writers, Irv Green and Andrea Gross, have a business of creating heirloom family story books and noticed that it was often the grandchildren who were more interested in the family stories rather than the grown children of the customers. “I thought it’d be the grandmother writing for her 50-year-old son, but it was the 11-year-old grandchildren going bonkers over the stories,” Gross said. And, that’s about what I say at presentations—you never know who will enjoy the old memories or at what age they will become interested, so write down or tell those stories anyway. If not now, then someday someone will be glad you did.

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