Stop, Drop and Enjoy

Last week I came home from a busy day at work to find a phone message from my husband, who was on a golfing vacation, saying all flights out of North Carolina had finally been cancelled due to high winds. I was glad he was safe on the ground, but he was to be my babysitter for the evening while I went to my weekly Bible Study meeting which I had missed quite a few of lately. My older daughter was working and I wondered who I could call at such late notice on a school night.

The day was so beautiful, after many days of cold and damp, and my younger daughter and her neighbor friend were happily playing badminton in the front yard. I casually mentioned it would be a good day for a picnic in the park and they exploded with excitement – what could I do? I packed up sandwiches, drinks and the dog and we all headed for the nearby park. The girls played until dark while Buddy and I wandered about with no direction in mind.

Sometimes, it’s good to drop everything and take advantage of an opportunity – especially an opportunity to play! That night, while tucking my daughter in bed after washing all the sand and grass off in a bath, she told me, “Mommy, that was the funnest day I’ve had in a long time!” And that made everything worthwhile.

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Living History

During the last couple weeks my daughter’s fourth grade teacher read aloud to her class the brand new manuscript for the second edition of Cherry Blossoms in Twilight. I wanted to know how the kids liked it. They wanted to meet my mother, and the teacher happened to call and ask on a day my Mom was visiting our house. Mom was a bit nervous as we walked the short distance to school as she’s not used to speaking to an audience.

The kids were very quiet and attentive. They asked so many questions, politely raising their hands and waiting to be called on. A woman was in the classroom making a videotape of my mother. Even though my mother repeated the same story five times, the kids patiently listened. The teacher had explained to them that it was hard for her to remember things that happened recently. Nervousness aside, my mother really enjoyed talking to the kids and was impressed with their good manners, friendliness and curiousity.

The kids had really liked the book of my mother’s life in Japan during the Depression, WWII and the Occupation. They learned about another culture in a very personal way. They learned a lot about the seriousness of war yet in a gentle manner. Their teacher felt it was an important and valuable learning experience for them.

Now I am putting the final touches on the book. Editing is a never-ending process, but there comes a point when one has to let go and publish. Fortunately I have the voices of approving children in my ears.

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Finding The Perfect Prom Dress

During the kids’ spring break, we went up to the Chicago area to help my sister celebrate her birthday. While we were visiting, my teen daughter insisted on looking for prom dresses hoping to find one that would be unique back in her home town. She and her cousin searched a few shops, eschewing the less-expensive department stores and going for the higher end dress shops to my dismay. I had warned them I would not pay several hundred dollars for a gown that wasn’t a wedding dress! Well, they finally found something they liked and returned just as dinner was set to fetch me, the owner of the credit card. Daughter, mother and grandmother immediately rushed to the next town to approve this special treasure and capture it before anyone else could.

Oh, it is lovely. As my daughter modeled in the hallway we all oohed and ahhed. My sister showed me how to set the modest train once shoes were bought, and then sewed some loose beads in more firmly as I watched and learned. It was quite an exciting experience for all us girls, and so fun to have my mother, sister and niece share it with us.

My daughter will be paying part of the cost, but it wasn’t as bad as I feared. My mother commented on the beautifully elegant white gown saying that perhaps if my daughter did not gain weight she could save the dress to get married in! Well, that’s a good thought for us cheapskates.

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