One Wedding and a Funeral

Our family recently delighted in a wedding, not so common these days as all of us “kids” are getting middle-aged yet our own kids are too young for marriage. Our home was filled with an extra five children and a couple adults. Even though things were hectic and the bathroom doors revolved, I enjoyed it all. Fortunately the bride and groom and mothers were not unduly stressed, for the most part. It was wonderful to see so many family members at once – some I rarely see even though we live in the same town.

Most recently, my in-laws were here for the weekend, recovering from caring for a relative during a lengthy illness that culminated in a funeral. During visitation, an elderly aunt brought there from the nursing home was so happy to see her extended family from near and far. Times of sadness can also bring our beloveds together again in caring, and the sad can become joy.

It is good to be together sharing smiles and stories and the warmth of hugs. In our busy lives it is important to take a break from all the running and reconnect with our families – not just for weddings and funerals.

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Poetry for Children

As I volunteer in my daughter’s elementary school library, sometimes I check out a book I find that might interest her and expand her horizons. A few weeks ago I found “Cool Melons – Turn to Frogs,” a colorful book by Matthew Gollub about the famous Japanese haiku poet Issa. Beautifully illustrated in art by Kazuko Stone and by Issa’s own haiku, this is a thoughtful look at the rather sad life of a sensitive man. My daughter enjoyed the poems as they related to the simple story set in a different culture, and I thought I might shed a tear as I learned what was behind some of the poems: “O wild goose, how young were you when you set out alone.”

Another children’s poetry book we both really enjoyed was “Winter Eyes,” one of many delightful and fun poetry books by Douglas Florian. This is filled with rhyming, rhythmic creations about all things winter: “…Icicles are winter’s arrows, pointing out the crows and sparrows…”

Finally, “Joyful Noise: Poems for Two Voices” by Paul Fleischman is a fun poetry book for children who are adequate readers. This book is a collection of poems about insects that HAS to be shared as each person reads their own part of each poem… sometimes reading together in tandem, sometimes reading different parts at the same time, sometimes taking turns. It really is fun, and you have to pay attention!

Kids study poetry in school, and reading poetry at home helps them better learn to enjoy this artistic form of writing. It is a nice thought that we might raise a child that is sensitive enough to his or her own thoughts and feelings and creative enough to be able to express them in the form of a poem.

“The teacher told us first we must get close to nature, to hear or see things, and then bring the feeling inside ourselves… those feelings make haiku poetry” – “Cherry Blossoms in Twilight

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Susan Stevens Crummel Author Visit

The elementary school my youngest daughter goes to had one of their annual author visits, sponsored by the PTO. Susan Stevens Crummel, who along with her sister produced books such as Jackalope and The Great Fuzz Frenzy, gave presentations by grade level to the kids. Watching her was a treat as she was an expert storyteller, explaining how she and her sister came by the ideas for their stories and bringing props of stuffed toys and funny hats and pulling children out of the audience to help act out those stories. I loved how she described working with her editor, “The Little Red Pen woman.” While the kids had a lot of fun with Susan Crummel they were also learning about the whole writing process. Ms. Crummel even brought along a big printout of one of her books as it came from the printing press – all the pages on one huge sheet which can then be folded up just right so that all the pages are in order, ready for machines to bind them and glue the covers on. Learning how a “real author” imagines and creates has been very inspiring to the kids as well as the teachers, I think. Of course, my own daughter thought the most amazing thing about the whole visit was learning that Ms. Crummel knew Kelly Clarkson!

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