Teaching Personal Narratives

Today I visited my youngest daughter’s elementary classroom to talk to the kids about the art of writing stories. We are so lucky in that each year this school invites a famous children’s author to discuss their work and their process of writing. The PTO pays for that. I came as an everyday-someone who had realized their dream of writing a book, a personal narrative at that which is what the kids were working on. That can be an empowering thing, to know that “regular” people can do something as cool as publish a book.

We talked about how to collect ideas (many writers have a handy notebook to jot down ideas as they float by), to write using lots of descriptions so that the reader can “live” their story, and to add their feelings and thoughts. Then there is that editing part – a friend who does not know the story is very useful to identify sections that don’t make sense and to help double-check spelling and grammar. And no, Spell Check does not catch all the spelling mistakes.

The kids were very attentive, asked lots of questions and were happy to discuss any difficulties they were having. And they were just astonished to learn that they themselves could “publish” a simple book by typing their story on a computer, adding photos or drawings or graphics, creating a cover, and printing the pages out and taking them to the nearest copy shop to be xeroxed and nicely bound. I think that Office Depot and Kinko’s will have some kid business soon.

Living and Teaching the Writing Workshop by Kristen Painter is a new book recommended to teachers who want to learn to become better writers themselves and so be able to teach from their experiences. What a great idea!

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Cheese Blintzes and Family Trees

There was a lovely article in the St. Louis Post Dispatch this week about three women who created an album of their history spanning five generations. These cousins at first did not even know they were related and were excited to accidentally find each other. Thus it goes with big families! The fun part of their project was that they based their family history book on cooking. Coming from a Jewish heritage, their lives were often centered around the kitchen. They collected recipes from their oldest living generation, in their 80’s, who also shared their stories. Many recipes had to be adapted. You know how in the old days our mothers used a pinch of this and a handful of that. The resulting spiral-bound 8 ½ x 11 inch book contains 80 family recipes and a family tree. There is even a glossary of Jewish terms for the “goys” in the family.

I have to say, the photos of the beautifully golden cheese blintzes covered in sour cream and raspberries look SO delicious! My Japanese heritage doesn’t have anything like that!

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Caring for Aging Parents

I have been so busy lately between work, researching for the second edition of the Cherry Blossoms book, kids starting school, and caring for my mother. Unfortunately my mother was diagnosed with early Altzheimer’s. She is very forgetful and knows it, which makes her depressed. I try to encourage her and support her, but it is difficult. Patience is not my best virtue. As I live in a household where the dog listens best, having my mother seemingly not pay any attention to what I say is about the last straw. Yes, my voice sometimes gets sharp; it makes my mother nervous and even more forgetful. I told her to speak up and remind me to calm down. I need her help in that. I have read up on literature provided by Altzheimer’s organizations and know this is going to be my big challenge in life, this learning patience.

I am so glad that I finished Cherry Blossoms in Twilight while my mother was just in the early stages of losing her memory. Now, I know her stories better than she. She still has times when her memory sharpens as she thinks of the old days, but the new days are just not there. It is difficult to look forward to anything and every day becomes the same when you can’t remember what happened. For now she safely lives in a senior apartment complex, but stays with me often partly so I can make sure she is eating well.

My stepmom’s mother, who is nearly blind, has just learned that she will probably not walk again. She, too, is fighting depression and the thought that there is nothing left to live for. She, too, is upset that she who was once strong and vibrant must now depend on others for help. We can say these older ladies are spoiled indeed to have children who care for them and a nice place to stay, but it is still difficult for them to face the future. What can we children do but be there with love and hugs and encouraging words. The sun will still shine warmly on their faces, the birds still sing for them, the flowers are still beautiful and sweet. We have to point out the beauty that remains for them, constantly push the darkness back for them. That is our labor of love that they deserve from us.

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