Videotaping Family History Part II

The room where you interview should be well lit, the radio and TV off, the phone off the hook, little noisy kids out to a friend’s house. Ask if anyone wants something to drink. Have a list of questions ready and inform your subject(s) ahead of time about some of the things they will be asked. If you are both taping and interviewing, keep your voice moderate so you won’t appear to be shouting on the tape – in this case it is preferable to have another relative asking most of the questions. Be sure to start by stating the date, who you are and who you are interviewing. Then have your subject tell their date and place of birth, names of parents and siblings. From there you are free to chat away. You may need a time-out for battery or tape changes, or to switch to a different camera angle for variety. Keep the panning and zooming to a minimum.

When you are finished, you may edit your tape if you think it’s necessary and if that is something you know how to do. I would advise taking the tape in to a camera shop to have it made into a DVD which is a sturdier way to store the interview. You don’t want to cry because the tape got old or tangled up or the cassette broken. Wait for a sale – I got mine done for $26.00 at Wolf Camera.

The best thing about videotaping is that you capture the whole essence of your loved one who will then be able to speak to great-great-grandchildren they will never know. It is a beautiful way for their memory to be alive forever.

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Videotaping Family History Part I

Videotaping is a fast and fairly easy way to record memories. Almost everyone has a videocamera, and many cameras these days are capable of very good editing. Even for the technologically incompetent, though, videotaping can be done easily and well enough. Know how to work your camera and practice panning across a room very slowly, zooming in and out very slowly, so you won’t make your video viewers seasick. When you are ready to tape, have the battery charged and a spare handy – or plug the camera into a wall outlet. Have one or two blank cassettes ready to use. A tripod would be great to have to keep the camera steady. I sat in a kitchen chair with my knees jacked up and the camera propped on my knees – it worked, but is a little uncomfortable for long sessions.

Decide where you want to tape and who all you want in the room. It may be fine to have just your subject there, it may be better to have a relative or two sitting with them to help facilitate conversation. Maybe you want to sit with that person and ask questions while somebody else tapes.

I ran the videorecorder while interviewing my husband’s grandmother and mother together in a dining room. My mother-in-law was a huge help since Granny was not a big talker. She knew some of the stories to ask about and helped Granny feel more at ease. My mother-in-law sat at the table fixing up a tray of lasagna, with my daughter quietly popping in later to help sprinkle cheese. It was a warm and homey scene that ended up capturing not only some of Granny’s stories, but also her daughter’s. I was very pleased.

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Memories – Help Your Job Search

Our local newspaper carried an interesting article by Tim McGuire, syndicated columnist, who interviewed Cliff Hakim, author of “We Are All Self-Employed: How to Take Control of Your Own Career.” Mr. Hakim has a consulting business, Rethinking Work, which helps others determine the kind of work that is important and meaningful to them. He feels life is too short to waste it doing work that is unfulfilling. Mr. Hakim believes that people should look into their past, to think about their own stories, in order to understand what is important to them and what gives them joy. By finding a job that meshes with what is meaningful to you, then you will find happiness and be able to add value in your own way to the world.

A tip at the end of the article states that reflecting on ordinary memories and childhood stories will help you realize “important things about who you are now.” So, perhaps our reminiscing is not just making a happy familiar playground for our minds or, in the case of unhappy pasts, a way of inflicting further pain on our psyches, but rather a way to really look at ourselves and learn lessons from our history that will help us lead more fulfilled and complete lives now… an interesting thought for the day.

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