Methods of Capturing Family Memories


If you choose to write down family memories, you can write and publish a book as I did with Cherry Blossoms in Twilight: Memories of a Japanese Girl. That was a lot of work, but then it is a hundred-page book. You can instead create a booklet of stories that a copy shop like Kinkos can take care of. This is economical and fairly easy to do. And wouldn’t it be a great idea to include recipes among your family history stories? Some people just create family cookbooks filled with “heirloom” recipes from mom, grandma, and great-grandma, and maybe a few stories about the recipes or memories of dinners and cooking – a different focus.

To make writing down memories really easy for you, there are quite a number of family-memory books available that have pages of questions for you or your family member(s) to answer. I’ll write about the pros and cons of this later.

Scrapbooking is really in fashion now and lots of fun. If you’ve got some creativity and plenty of great old photos, this may be the way to go. Scrapbooking can be as labor-intensive (and costly) as you want to make it. Related to that, you could just do photo albums using some scrapbooking techniques. Can’t include that much in the way of stories that way, though.

One of the easiest and perhaps best ways to capture memories is to videotape the storyteller(s). Nowadays you can even take that videotape to a camera shop and have it made into a DVD. I have videotaped two relatives together with good results, even though I was almost a total amateur and one of my subjects was not very forthcoming. I have plenty of advice to give on this method.

The final method is to hire somebody to do any of these other methods for you. I have seen stunning scrapbooks and homemade books done for clients. There are companies that will shoot and edit videotapes, too. Expect to pay a good bit for someone else’s time and special talents.

I’ll write on each of these methods in future entries.

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Happy New Year

Happy New Year to all! If you’re like me, it’s time to resolve to get rid of all the “cookie fat” you’ve gained over the holidays. Last year our family and some friends created an email support group we called “Healthy 2005” to give advice and support to each other as we tried to develop healthful lifestyles. Many of us had success stories as we learned to eat better and think better and exercise more. It was a great family bonding experience, too, as we emailed each other every Monday to tell how our week went and to respond to others.

Now that the new year has begun, it is time for me to start writing about how you, too, can capture your family memories – the main purpose of this blog. I have to brag a little bit and tell you that the book I wrote with my mother, Cherry Blossoms in Twilight: Memories of a Japanese Girl, was written about in four newspapers last month! It has been selling pretty well through local channels and even Amazon. I am so happy that others have been able to see the joy and the value of family memories. My mission is to encourage others to keep their treasures alive. My next blog entry will begin a series of articles about how to record memories.

“Recollections of yesteryear, reminiscing about days past, our memory is the only true treasure chest we possess, and in it are stored all the jewels of our passing years.”

-quote by Catherine Galasso-Vigorito, free-lance writer and author of “A New You, Words to Soothe the Mind, Body, and Spirit”

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Christmas Afterthoughts

We are back home from our holiday visiting with my beloved relatives. I am fortunate that we get along so well and our visits always seem too short. We were not even able to play any of the family games we brought, but we did have a great time doing the annual puzzles.

Dad got an interesting puzzle mystery for Christmas called “C is for Chocolate.” We had to read a short story and then put together two puzzles out of one big mess of pieces, with no pictures to help, and then solve a murder mystery based on the short story and these before and after puzzle-crime scenes. Once we got past the annoyance of having to piece together the scenes without even knowing what they were to look like, it became fun and it really was fun to figure out “who done it.” I’m not going to tell.

My sister, mom, and I visited an old high school friend of mine and her family that we hadn’t seen in ages and had a great time laughing and reminiscing and talking about how we had changed (or not). And, it is always amazing to see how the kids have grown. Old friends… family… that’s what sharing Christmas is about – love and relationships.

I think about other people, other families, who don’t have the good relationships, or who have suffered loss over the past year. For them Christmas must have been difficult. I can only hope that those with imperfect relationships can see past the annoyances and grievances to the bonds and experiences that are shared, and that they can find a shred of humor in the imperfections – attitude can be everything. Let the tough moments blow past you, and just think about the crazy stories you can tell your friends when you get home. For those suffering from loss of loved ones, I hope that the memories were sweet and that there was peace and comfort in those memories that brought together the hearts of all those around who shared the loss.

As the new year is around the corner, take a little time to think backwards and bask in the memories – the good ones – and begin to imagine new good memories ahead. Perhaps the New Year Resolution can be to find the time and the ways to make those good memories happen.

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