Happy New Year

Happy New Year to all! If you’re like me, it’s time to resolve to get rid of all the “cookie fat” you’ve gained over the holidays. Last year our family and some friends created an email support group we called “Healthy 2005” to give advice and support to each other as we tried to develop healthful lifestyles. Many of us had success stories as we learned to eat better and think better and exercise more. It was a great family bonding experience, too, as we emailed each other every Monday to tell how our week went and to respond to others.

Now that the new year has begun, it is time for me to start writing about how you, too, can capture your family memories – the main purpose of this blog. I have to brag a little bit and tell you that the book I wrote with my mother, Cherry Blossoms in Twilight: Memories of a Japanese Girl, was written about in four newspapers last month! It has been selling pretty well through local channels and even Amazon. I am so happy that others have been able to see the joy and the value of family memories. My mission is to encourage others to keep their treasures alive. My next blog entry will begin a series of articles about how to record memories.

“Recollections of yesteryear, reminiscing about days past, our memory is the only true treasure chest we possess, and in it are stored all the jewels of our passing years.”

-quote by Catherine Galasso-Vigorito, free-lance writer and author of “A New You, Words to Soothe the Mind, Body, and Spirit”

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Christmas Afterthoughts

We are back home from our holiday visiting with my beloved relatives. I am fortunate that we get along so well and our visits always seem too short. We were not even able to play any of the family games we brought, but we did have a great time doing the annual puzzles.

Dad got an interesting puzzle mystery for Christmas called “C is for Chocolate.” We had to read a short story and then put together two puzzles out of one big mess of pieces, with no pictures to help, and then solve a murder mystery based on the short story and these before and after puzzle-crime scenes. Once we got past the annoyance of having to piece together the scenes without even knowing what they were to look like, it became fun and it really was fun to figure out “who done it.” I’m not going to tell.

My sister, mom, and I visited an old high school friend of mine and her family that we hadn’t seen in ages and had a great time laughing and reminiscing and talking about how we had changed (or not). And, it is always amazing to see how the kids have grown. Old friends… family… that’s what sharing Christmas is about – love and relationships.

I think about other people, other families, who don’t have the good relationships, or who have suffered loss over the past year. For them Christmas must have been difficult. I can only hope that those with imperfect relationships can see past the annoyances and grievances to the bonds and experiences that are shared, and that they can find a shred of humor in the imperfections – attitude can be everything. Let the tough moments blow past you, and just think about the crazy stories you can tell your friends when you get home. For those suffering from loss of loved ones, I hope that the memories were sweet and that there was peace and comfort in those memories that brought together the hearts of all those around who shared the loss.

As the new year is around the corner, take a little time to think backwards and bask in the memories – the good ones – and begin to imagine new good memories ahead. Perhaps the New Year Resolution can be to find the time and the ways to make those good memories happen.

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Holiday Gift

My sister emailed me the following which I thought I should save to read again each Christmas season –

“Let’s not let the grinch steal Christmas! It’s not the tree, it’s not the lights, it’s not the brightly colored presents, it’s the love we have for each other which doesn’t need all the hoopla to announce itself. Baby Jesus just came and was born, he didn’t have Silver Bells playing in the background, the Magi were late(r) with their presents, his parents didn’t send out Christmas announcements, they just had Love… We each have instances of that Love from others and what we give to others, which couldn’t be topped by anything under the tree!

You are Loved! I am Loved! The greatest gift of all! And no store has advertised that for sale anywhere.”

Amen. And Merry Christmas!

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