The Family Games People Play

Our closet is filled with board games and card games and puzzles. I like to buy games that even our youngest child can play, and that us parents enjoy. The games listed below are educational and/or challenging to the mind and are our top choices for family fun. They can be played with two to four (sometimes more) people. Sometimes, even Grandma joins in.

Slamwich, for ages 6 and up, is a well-worn card game in our house. Make sure your fingernails are smooth as you have be the first to slap the deck to win cards. It is available in specialty toy shops and online through Gamewright and Amazon.

Rat-a-tat Cat, an award-winning card game for ages 6 and up, works your memory and tests your strategy as you try to collect low-number cards after looking at only half the cards you were dealt. It can also only be found at educational toy shops or online.

Yahtzee, for the beginning poker player, is a simple game where kids can practice addition skills. Young kids can play with parental help on strategy and adding.

Pass the Pigs is a fun, interesting game of rolling pigs, adding, and taking risks. Comes in a little carrying case you can fit in your purse. You should be able to find this at your neighborhood Target or Toys-R-Us.

Labyrinth, by Ravensburger, is one of our favorites and is also only at educational toy shops or online. Ours came from Discovery Toys. Even my husband enjoys this game of shifting “maze cards” to create pathways so you can reach treasures shown on your cards. This game is for ages 8 and up. There is a Junior Labyrinth for ages 5-10.

Life, an oldy but goody, is now available as “Sponge-Bob Life” – a version my child has on her Christmas list. This game has taught our youngest to count big money and to make change. It introduces concepts like insurance and the cost of paying for daycare. I’m not sure what concepts Sponge-Bob Life introduces … or whether there will be any boy children my daughter will insist on sticking under the car.

I Spy is a card-matching memory game based on the I Spy books, which my kids (and I) enjoy. This is the one that sharpens my own scatter-brained memory and that we like to get Grandma to play since it is good brain exercise to help combat her short-term memory problems.

Of these games, Rat-a-tat Cat and Pass the Pigs are shorter games for busy parents with time limits. Hope you’ve found some ideas for the kids’ Christmas presents. Have fun!

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Time to Play

Family games make great holiday gifts that help to bring kids and adults together. Parents, make time to play with your kids. My youngest daughter regularly asks if I will play a game with her. Too often, we say, “Not now, I’m busy,” or “Maybe later,” but later never comes. Sometimes we just don’t want to play Candyland.

Wouldn’t it be nice, though, to stop and make time for one game with your child? There is a sense of freedom and laissez-faire in being able to put aside your busy schedule and give your child your complete attention for just awhile. It is a real bonding experience that, trust me, thrills your child and makes him or her feel like you really think (s)he’s important in your life.

Stop your busy day sometime. The laundry, the errand, the little household repair will wait. There’s nothing like laughing and playing with a child to make you forget your cares and make your child love you more than ever. Drop everything and live for the moment. Playing keeps us young at heart – and, of course, makes for happy memories.

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Christmas Gift Ideas – at the Book Store

Well, the holiday season is upon us and I want to remind you that books and bookstore gift cards make great presents! The recently published Cherry Blossoms in Twilight: Memories of a Japanese Girl would appeal to anyone who has lived in Japan or has loved Japan… or anyone who enjoys learning about other cultures. The illustrations, done by my mother as she tried to explain concepts to me, are adorable and remind me of the artwork of Gyo Fujikawa. Many older adults have loved this book because it brings them back to their own childhood memories. Cherry Blossoms is available through Amazon or through the website www.moonbridgebooks.com.

I’d like to suggest giving Grandma or Grandpa (or Mom or Dad) a blank journal book along with Cherry Blossoms or any other book of personal stories, whether autobiographical or fictionalized history. The gift of a journaling book would encourage your loved one to record his or her own stories. Reading Cherry Blossoms can give ideas of what to write about as well as help recall those old memories, as it is recent history familiar to our senior adults today.

An alternative gift suggestion would be to give a family memory book such as To Our Children’s Children by Paul Vatter, or Your Story: A Guided Interview Through Your Personal & Family History, both available on Amazon.com. Browse through the Amazon reviews of these books before you buy. To many people, these books work best when used to provide examples of questions to ask. A blank journaling book will then allow plenty of space to write about events and stories of the person’s own choosing.

Blank journal books are a great gift idea for teens, too. My daughters like to ask me about my own childhood stories, but unfortunately I can’t remember many. Journals can be used by teens to record interesting events and stories as well as the thoughts and feelings around those moments. They can begin by writing down stories they remember from their younger days. Unlike a diary, which is a daily run of thoughts, this journal would include descriptions of happenings or thoughts or poems the author would like to remember in the future. These writings can be a special delight to look back upon when older – and provide the basis of a life-story recording later.

So, check out the book stores while you’re shopping for Christmas gifts. Include a nice bookmark as an added touch. Give the gift of reading – and remembering.

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