Living History

During the last couple weeks my daughter’s fourth grade teacher read aloud to her class the brand new manuscript for the second edition of Cherry Blossoms in Twilight. I wanted to know how the kids liked it. They wanted to meet my mother, and the teacher happened to call and ask on a day my Mom was visiting our house. Mom was a bit nervous as we walked the short distance to school as she’s not used to speaking to an audience.

The kids were very quiet and attentive. They asked so many questions, politely raising their hands and waiting to be called on. A woman was in the classroom making a videotape of my mother. Even though my mother repeated the same story five times, the kids patiently listened. The teacher had explained to them that it was hard for her to remember things that happened recently. Nervousness aside, my mother really enjoyed talking to the kids and was impressed with their good manners, friendliness and curiousity.

The kids had really liked the book of my mother’s life in Japan during the Depression, WWII and the Occupation. They learned about another culture in a very personal way. They learned a lot about the seriousness of war yet in a gentle manner. Their teacher felt it was an important and valuable learning experience for them.

Now I am putting the final touches on the book. Editing is a never-ending process, but there comes a point when one has to let go and publish. Fortunately I have the voices of approving children in my ears.

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Finding The Perfect Prom Dress

During the kids’ spring break, we went up to the Chicago area to help my sister celebrate her birthday. While we were visiting, my teen daughter insisted on looking for prom dresses hoping to find one that would be unique back in her home town. She and her cousin searched a few shops, eschewing the less-expensive department stores and going for the higher end dress shops to my dismay. I had warned them I would not pay several hundred dollars for a gown that wasn’t a wedding dress! Well, they finally found something they liked and returned just as dinner was set to fetch me, the owner of the credit card. Daughter, mother and grandmother immediately rushed to the next town to approve this special treasure and capture it before anyone else could.

Oh, it is lovely. As my daughter modeled in the hallway we all oohed and ahhed. My sister showed me how to set the modest train once shoes were bought, and then sewed some loose beads in more firmly as I watched and learned. It was quite an exciting experience for all us girls, and so fun to have my mother, sister and niece share it with us.

My daughter will be paying part of the cost, but it wasn’t as bad as I feared. My mother commented on the beautifully elegant white gown saying that perhaps if my daughter did not gain weight she could save the dress to get married in! Well, that’s a good thought for us cheapskates.

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One Wedding and a Funeral

Our family recently delighted in a wedding, not so common these days as all of us “kids” are getting middle-aged yet our own kids are too young for marriage. Our home was filled with an extra five children and a couple adults. Even though things were hectic and the bathroom doors revolved, I enjoyed it all. Fortunately the bride and groom and mothers were not unduly stressed, for the most part. It was wonderful to see so many family members at once – some I rarely see even though we live in the same town.

Most recently, my in-laws were here for the weekend, recovering from caring for a relative during a lengthy illness that culminated in a funeral. During visitation, an elderly aunt brought there from the nursing home was so happy to see her extended family from near and far. Times of sadness can also bring our beloveds together again in caring, and the sad can become joy.

It is good to be together sharing smiles and stories and the warmth of hugs. In our busy lives it is important to take a break from all the running and reconnect with our families – not just for weddings and funerals.

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