Poetry for Children

As I volunteer in my daughter’s elementary school library, sometimes I check out a book I find that might interest her and expand her horizons. A few weeks ago I found “Cool Melons – Turn to Frogs,” a colorful book by Matthew Gollub about the famous Japanese haiku poet Issa. Beautifully illustrated in art by Kazuko Stone and by Issa’s own haiku, this is a thoughtful look at the rather sad life of a sensitive man. My daughter enjoyed the poems as they related to the simple story set in a different culture, and I thought I might shed a tear as I learned what was behind some of the poems: “O wild goose, how young were you when you set out alone.”

Another children’s poetry book we both really enjoyed was “Winter Eyes,” one of many delightful and fun poetry books by Douglas Florian. This is filled with rhyming, rhythmic creations about all things winter: “…Icicles are winter’s arrows, pointing out the crows and sparrows…”

Finally, “Joyful Noise: Poems for Two Voices” by Paul Fleischman is a fun poetry book for children who are adequate readers. This book is a collection of poems about insects that HAS to be shared as each person reads their own part of each poem… sometimes reading together in tandem, sometimes reading different parts at the same time, sometimes taking turns. It really is fun, and you have to pay attention!

Kids study poetry in school, and reading poetry at home helps them better learn to enjoy this artistic form of writing. It is a nice thought that we might raise a child that is sensitive enough to his or her own thoughts and feelings and creative enough to be able to express them in the form of a poem.

“The teacher told us first we must get close to nature, to hear or see things, and then bring the feeling inside ourselves… those feelings make haiku poetry” – “Cherry Blossoms in Twilight”

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Susan Stevens Crummel Author Visit

The elementary school my youngest daughter goes to had one of their annual author visits, sponsored by the PTO. Susan Stevens Crummel, who along with her sister produced books such as Jackalope and The Great Fuzz Frenzy, gave presentations by grade level to the kids. Watching her was a treat as she was an expert storyteller, explaining how she and her sister came by the ideas for their stories and bringing props of stuffed toys and funny hats and pulling children out of the audience to help act out those stories. I loved how she described working with her editor, “The Little Red Pen woman.” While the kids had a lot of fun with Susan Crummel they were also learning about the whole writing process. Ms. Crummel even brought along a big printout of one of her books as it came from the printing press – all the pages on one huge sheet which can then be folded up just right so that all the pages are in order, ready for machines to bind them and glue the covers on. Learning how a “real author” imagines and creates has been very inspiring to the kids as well as the teachers, I think. Of course, my own daughter thought the most amazing thing about the whole visit was learning that Ms. Crummel knew Kelly Clarkson!

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Developing Self Esteem

This is a subject dear to the hearts of educators and child-care workers. Yes, sometimes they go overboard, but all of us need to learn that we are worthwhile human beings, and outside of what some other people think or say about us. Each of us has certain talents and strong points that make us special in some way. Each of us deserves to be treated with dignity and respect.

We have a duty to help our children learn self-respect and self-worth. The world is full of people who would take advantage of others if allowed… and yes, we ALLOW them to do it by giving in to their demands, doing all the work because they won’t help, putting up with their mistreatment of us, and otherwise refusing to stand up for ourselves. This can get very dangerous when you consider what happens to women (and sometimes men) who are in abusive relationships.

We owe it to our youngsters to tell them they are loved no matter what, in spite of temper tantrums or messy rooms. My child recently asked me if I would still love her if she accidentally burned the house down! Teens especially need to know they are loved and appreciated, in spite of being REALLY difficult. That is an age where a LOT of love and understanding mixed with firmness and advice is needed to help get past the trials of life. Praise your children when they do well at something, tell them their good points and acknowledge their talents. Don’t be fooled – even talented or popular or straight-A kids can feel inferior. Grow your children independent and strong and, above all, teach them that they are worthy of being loved and treated well.

Recommended books: Momma Do You Love Me?, Girls on Track: A Parent’s Guide, Dads and Daughters (for raising teen girls)

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