New Year’s Resolutions

Happy New Year! I have eaten all the leftover cookies and am ready to begin exercising to lose some weight. Forget the quarts of my favorite Oberweiss peppermint ice cream in the freezer. I have, for the past few days, been spending some time each evening working with 5-lb handweights. You can do a lot with those, combining arm exercises with leg squats and waist twists. I even do the arm exercises at the same time as the leg squats or twists in order to save time. And I can do this while watching Jay Leno! Talk about multi-tasking.

This brings the thought to my mind that exercising can be a family affair. My 10-year-old likes to lift those handweights, too – don’t ask me how her waifish body can hold up those heavy weights. I suppose I can buy her a lighter set and teach her how to handle them correctly. Another thing she likes to do is yoga. I took a few years of yoga classes at the excellent Health Advantage Center, Inc., in Herndon, VA. I tell people that yoga saved my life during a particularly stressful time. I learned how to breathe and relax. It is a wonderful thing to teach others. My daughter and her friend like to follow my lead, doing various poses while a scented candle burns nearby. I ought to do that regularly. Kicking a soccer ball around the backyard with the kids will take my breath away; I prefer briskly walking the dog – he’s family! – and my daughter and her friend like to come along, too. My goal is to make time for my health.

These days when the newspapers are crying warnings about overweight children (along with their parents) it might be a fun New Year’s resolution to get in shape together. The family that sweats together…

*click on the sidebar entry to visit Amazon’s books on yoga for children

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Homemade Christmas Cookies

My sister was bemoaning having to bake some Christmas cookies as neither of the two bakers in the family would be coming in to visit over the holidays. She is a busy woman juggling two part-time jobs and a household, so understandably cookie-baking is relegated to the back burner. Hers is a familiar story in this day and age of dual-career or single-parent families.

She does have happy memories of helping decorate eggnog cookies, the huge recipe filling the dining table with sparkling colored sugars and silver dragees (illegal in California now!). When she and I got to be teens we took over the job of holiday baking as our mother much preferred cooking to toiling over dough. I still make these mild nutmeg-flavored butter cookies and hope my children follow in the tradition. They do like to help decorate and my youngest loves rolling the dough and cutting shapes.

Homemade cookie-baking is becoming a lost art known mostly to grandmothers now. In these days of busyness (and dieting) many families end up with a box of storebought cookies or at best the sugar cookies from those rolls of dough in the dairy case. My daughter has little friends that like to come over and help bake because it is just not done much in their own homes. I have taught them how to pack down the brown sugar in the measuring cup but let the flour be light and fluffy. I ask them how many quarter-cups make a whole cup, which is the half-teaspoon, what makes the cookie dough rise. Baking can be a math as well as chemistry lesson.

The only “younger” person I know who really bakes for the holidays (besides me) is our neighbor, the Cookie Queen, who each year has an open house filled with every cookie imaginable. She puts all us other moms to shame! She starts in September, I think, and must have a freezer set aside just for cookies. Her sons are lucky kids whose wives will have some big oven mitts to fill.

So perhaps you can make REAL cookie baking a holiday tradition for your family. Just one batch is enough to thrill the kids. Warm up the oven on a cold day, mix those comforting baking smells with the evergreen scent of the tree, and enjoy soft, fresh cookies – without the preservatives!

Merry Christmas!

PS: for the eggnog cookie recipe, see Making Christmas Memories from Dec 2005

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Family Newsletters… like Fruitcake?

Yesterday’s “Dear Abby” had a letter from someone who hated reading those newsletters that arrive with the Christmas cards. Abby reminded the person that the trash can is available. I think she missed the point. Why do people dislike those newsletters that come but once a year telling them how their friends have been doing? If you don’t care about someone’s life, why are you friends with them? Why are they on your Christmas card list?

Ok, some people do not write fun newsletters. Some newsletters drone on and on; but, there is a method of reading called “skimming.” Many newsletters sound like a brag session; if you are intimidated, you might want to work on your own self-esteem. Other people’s good fortune is not a reflection on you and has little direct relationship to happiness or the true meaning of success.

Each year I enjoy reading the few newsletters we get. Most are from people I never see or speak to all year, but were an important part of our lives at one time. I like hearing the basics about their lives, finding out who the kids are growing up to be, and especially seeing photo printouts of their happy faces. Our neighbor sends a newsletter sprinkled with humor as her two sons are bright, clever characters definitely worth writing about.

I enjoy getting those newsletters. I know people who ASK their old friends for news, any news about their lives. What I don’t enjoy is getting a Christmas card from a faraway friend and there is nothing but a signature…

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