The Mystery of Ourselves

Someone in my family recently emailed: “There are many books on the shelves, some are well-read with well-known authors; but others are closed and locked, no one to read them, each book a mystery. Who is the author? Is there a key that will unlock the soul and let the life story spill out from the confines of the cover? Patiently, the illustrations wait to come to life when (if) the story is told, until the final chapter … and when finally the story ends, it can be whispered to others … and the author lives on, no longer a mystery, no longer an author unknown.”

Each of us is a book with chapters and stories that beg to be told. People don’t always think to ask what is in the book, but chances are good they will be delighted to listen if you open the covers and begin to read. Other cultures, in other times, told stories by the fire. That was how lives were remembered and history learned.

Sometimes we are afraid to open the book and spill the contents. What if the stories are embarrassing, or we have made mistakes or have failed? These are the stories that may be the most valuable, allowing others to learn from our own experiences or to have hope that they may rise above their own mistakes. These stories show us as the imperfect beings we all are and can help others relate to us better. These are the stories that can draw others closer and open the lines of communication.

Think about opening the pages of your own book, sharing yourself with those you love.

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Losing a Pet: Cat Heaven/Dog Heaven

Our cousins recently lost a beloved old cat who had aged to the point of sad and painful existence. The kids were able to say good-bye and give their last hugs and kisses. It is one of those tough experiences, learning to give up loved ones to the cycle of life.

We lost our own Jake, a very loveable but extremely naughty orange tiger cat a few years ago. Only this past fall did we get another cat (we do still have his sister, a tortie with a stripe down her nose). This new youngster is a pale orange tiger female, a “buff” tiger. She has grown and filled out to the point where the sight of her brings back memories of Jake; very bittersweet thoughts of love and loss – and joy that he is now in our daily lives again, if only through the constant reminder of this (happily) less-naughty version of himself.

We have a couple books I highly recommend to any family that has lost a pet dog or kitty. “Cat Heaven” and “Dog Heaven” are beautiful creations, simple and colorful, for child or adult, by Cynthia Rylant. It is just what you need to help you let go of the pain. For those who seriously question whether they will someday meet their pet in heaven, there is a best-selling book called, fittingly, “Will I See Fido in Heaven,” by Mary Buddemeyer-Porter, who looks at this question from a Biblical point of view.

“An angel will wait at the yellow front door, wait till a kitty comes home.
And when she arrives, he’ll give her a kiss and some milk in a bowl of her own.” – Cat Heaven

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A Series of Unfortunate Events

We are tired of having our power go on and off due to recent ice storms. We have been very lucky not to lose electricity for too long, but it is a lesson for us who have become one with our computers… and to children used to watching TV when they are not playing on the computer or with electronic games. My youngest proclaimed that we were pretending to be Amish as we read together and played games by candlelight. I was thinking more of Little House on the Prairie as our house began to chill and we had to use the fireplace. Yes, it is kind of fun to be forced to relinquish the work and have nothing else to do but play with the kids, although the winter nights seem very long in the dark – makes you want to go to bed early.

Another unfortunate event around here put our small seemingly idyllic suburban town into the national spotlight as two kidnapped boys were found stashed in an apartment here the other day. Every mother and many fathers must have cried with relief to see the boys reunited with their families. It was a time to hug our children and tell them again to never let a stranger get near, especially when he is in a vehicle.

Well, the unfortunate events had a silver lining of giving us time together without the intrusion of electronics and work, and we are so happy that not one but two missing boys were found. Now I must get back on track with my New Year’s resolution to exercise. Losing electrical power is not an excuse for losing will power!

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