How does your family say Happy New Year?

Akemashite omedeto gozaimasu! The other day I was able to learn more about the Japanese way of celebrating the new year at an event organized by a group of young Japanese mothers;’ many of their husbands are here temporarily with a local university. I met a young Japanese man, permanently living in the States, who brought his daughter, Sophie, along with Sophie’s American grandmother (the mother was a teacher who could not take a leave from her students). The young man wanted his daughter to learn about the Japanese half of her heritage. As I was a grown up daughter wanting to learn more about the Japanese half of my heritage, I was very happy that Sophie could experience such an event. Those living here in St. Louis are lucky to have many heritages embracing their cultures with special events open to the public. I plan to attend an upcoming Japanese storytelling theater presentation and even went to a Swedish Santa Lucia celebration in December even though I’m not the least bit Swedish.
The most fun way of learning about our heritage is to hear the stories of our parents or grandparents, especially if they are immigrants who can tell first-person stories of their home country and its traditions. Attending local events of one’s culture is a treat, even if it is necessary to travel a little to a nearby city or plan a vacation around a cultural celebration. Online searches can help find events or associations for specific heritages (search for the culture followed by “American association,” ex. Irish American association OR the state name followed by the culture, ex. Indiana Scottish). Here are a few general sites I found:
Swedish Council of America, with affiliates in many cities
Garam Chai website for all things Indian (India) in the U.S.
And while we are talking about heritage and culture, please donate to help Haiti recover from the earthquake devastation.
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Getting ready for the new year by contemplating the past

Michael Hyatt, CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers, a Christian publishing company, has a wonderful blog post addressing this time of the year between Christmas and New Year’s which, he says, is one of the most unproductive times of the year. (I beg to differ as that’s when I get caught up on a lot.) Businesses get quiet as employees and customers take time off, kids are at home and underfoot, only the retailers are scurrying (hopefully). Hyatt tells us this is a time to reflect on the past year as we look forward to the future, and follows with Seven Questions to Ask About Last Year:

1. If the last year were made into a movie of your life, what would the genre be?

2. What were the two or three major themes that kept recurring

3. What did you accomplish this past year that you are most proud of?

4. What do you feel you should have been acknowledged for but weren’t?

5. What disappointments or regrets did you experience this past year?

6. What was missing from this past year as you look back?

7. What were the major life lessons you learned this past year?

These are perfect questions for anyone interested in life writing, even if you are not planning to start life writing soon. Writing down the answers to all or even some of these questions is making a roadmap of the trip you have taken, marking in yellow the important landmarks, creating a guide to your own life that you or others may want to examine later. Grab a notebook and visit Mr. Hyatt’s post.

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Keeping spirits bright, even in hard times

I have been so unusually busy since Thanksgiving that only the other day I got the Christmas decorations up. Well, last weekend I did throw lights on the old yews guarding our front door and am reveling in our new remote control 3-outlet Christmas light switch (on sale cheap at Target). And thank goodness for the giant pointsettia, glowing in a corner, that my Japanese women’s group gave me as an outgoing president gift. The busyness and a death in the family have kept the Christmas spirit at bay. These are not uncommon scenarios at holiday times, and nowadays we have joblessness and frightening money woes gnawing at many homes. What to do when holiday songs don’t cheer us up? Well, don’t throw out Christmas (or Hannukah or Kwanzaa)!

Suzan Colon, author of Cherries in Winter: My Family’s Recipe for Hope in Hard Times, tells a story (One Family’s Secret to Surviving the Recession) of how in the midst of winter there is more reason than ever to hold on to firm traditions. Shopping and excitement may take a back seat, but there’s always time for A Charlie Brown Christmas, a special church service, baking one batch of simple cookies – and never, never think about ditching the Christmas tree!

PS: Passing by the Optimist’s tree lot today I saw all trees were 50% off!

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